The Heart of Leadership influences everything we think, say, and do — and focuses on WHY and HOW we lead.
Do your words and actions lift-up others?
Do you manage people or lead hearts?

I customize programs to help people level-up, lighten-up, and lift-up others with small mindset and habit changes.
I have navigated the Storms of Stress™ and negative emotions — which led to health issues and relationship problems.

I have spent 30+ years teaching and training people how to stress less, laugh more, and Choose Joy!
Do you struggle to “guard your heart” from the massive weight of negativity?
Has negativity started influencing your — thoughts, words, and actions?
Do your words and actions lift-up others?
Do you manage people or lead hearts?
Leadership is the ultimate game — with real people, consequences, and sacrifices.
Like most games, there are: goals, rules, players, strategies, and scoreboards.
Do you need to level-up your leadership? Do you know how to play and how to win?

There are two games within a game.
Many leaders are losing the inner game — stress, negativity, and burnout — that’s costing them the outer game — joy, positivity, and fulfillment.
Carl works with overwhelmed leaders to help level-up, lighten-up, and lift-up individuals and teams alike with a lasting LeaderShift of the Heart™.
Rediscover joy
Lead with purpose.
Create a thriving culture.
The Heart of Leadership influences everything we think, say, and do — and focuses on WHY and HOW we lead.
The Heart of Leadership is the “pulse” of our core qualities, traits, and values — that define HOW and WHY we lead.
Do you struggle to “guard your heart” from the massive weight of negativity?
Has negativity started influencing your — thoughts, words, and actions?
Do your words and actions lift-up others?
Do you manage people or lead hearts?
Leadership is the ultimate game — with real people, consequences, and sacrifices.
Like most games, there are: goals, rules, players, strategies, and scoreboards.
Do you need to level-up your leadership? Do you know how to play and how to win?

There are two games within a game.
Many leaders are losing the inner game — stress, negativity, and burnout — that’s costing them the outer game — joy, positivity, and fulfillment.
Carl works with overwhelmed leaders to help level-up, lighten-up, and lift-up individuals and teams alike with a lasting LeaderShift of the Heart™.
Rediscover joy
Lead with purpose.
Create a thriving culture.
Carl teaches leaders and organizations how to stand-up, step-up, and show-up so they can positively Lead Every One™.
Leadership is the ultimate game — with real people, consequences, and sacrifices.
Like most games, there are: goals, rules, players, strategies, and scoreboards.
Do you need to level-up your leadership? Do you know how to play and how to win?

There are two games within a game.
Many leaders are losing the inner game — stress, negativity, and burnout — that’s costing them the outer game — joy, positivity, and fulfillment.
Carl works with overwhelmed leaders to help level-up, lighten-up, and lift-up individuals and teams alike with a lasting LeaderShift of the Heart™.
Rediscover joy
Lead with purpose.
Create a thriving culture.

MY PAST
“Do not harden your hearts … "
Hebrews 3:8
Days before our 25th Anniversary, my wife asked for a divorce. I thought I was a good husband. And to be fair, I had been for most of our marriage.
My wife was no longer happy — and had not been happy for a long time.
She was tired of me putting my job, my interests, and even our kids before her.
She was tired of being my last priority. She was tired of the stress and negativity.
I was crushed. I was devastated. And my entire world came crashing down.
I know what it’s like to hit rock-bottom, struggle with financial, relationship, and health issues, and be overwhelmed by constant stress and negativity.
MY PRESENT
“Create in me a clean heart … "
Psalm 51:10
Faith became my foundation.
Perseverance inspired progress.
Struggles created new strategies.
My wife and I just celebrated
our 30th Anniversary!
Our faith led us closer:
— to God and to each other.
— to Victory Church in O'Fallon, IL.
— to a RelationShift of the Heart™.
What I teach is not a shallow framework.
I lived it. I learned from it. I now pass it on.
MY FUTURE
“ … give you a new heart … "
Ezekiel 36:26
My goal is to share what we have learned — and to help other people: achieve their own goals, create better results, and en“joy” their own process!
MY MISSION
TO HELP
“Every heartbroken, lonely soul sitting all
alone, and every outcast, stuck in their past, scared of letting go."
Zach Williams
MY VISION:
TO TEACH
“Love is — patient — kind — does not envy — does not boast — does not dishonor — is not self-seeking — not easily angered — always protects — trusts — hopes — perseveres.”
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
Carl Thomas Berry
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All Rights Reserved.
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